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The union of

Olga Mokoena & Nkululeko Ncalu Kwalo

  • White wedding
  • Traditional
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Save the dates

Two celebrations, one weekend

until the White WeddingSaturday, 5 December

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at Home of Archery Johannesburg South

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Thank you for celebrating with us, twice over. Our hearts are full.

White Wedding: Saturday, 5 December.

  1. Sat, 5 DecWhite WeddingHome of Archery Johannesburg SouthUp nextTodayNowCelebrated
  2. Sun, 6 DecTraditional Wedding5 Matruh StreetUp nextTodayNowCelebrated
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The celebrations

Two days, one love

Everything you need for each day: where to be, when to arrive, and what's planned once you're there.

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The first celebration

White Wedding

Our vows, before God and the people we love

We will exchange our vows at the matrimonial ceremony and then celebrate together at the reception. The dress code is formal black tie, and the day is BOB: please bring your own bottle, no alcohol will be served.

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When

09:00 – 19:00

South Africa Standard Time

Where

What to wear

Formal black tie

Formal evening wear.

Note: Black tie doesn't mean all black.

See the dress code for the White Wedding

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The programme

  1. Arrival of guests

    Guest interviews and messages begin as you arrive

  2. Matrimonial ceremony

    We say “I do”

  3. Reception

    BOB: bring your own bottle

  4. End of programme

The very next day

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The second celebration

Traditional Wedding

Where two families become one

The day after our white wedding, our families come together to celebrate in the traditional way: the arrival of the bride, the exchange of gifts and lunch together. This day is BOB too: please bring your own bottle, no alcohol will be served.

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When

10:30 – 17:00

South Africa Standard Time

Where

What to wear

Traditional attire

Come dressed in traditional attire. Wear your heritage proudly, in any print or style you love.

See the dress code for the Traditional Wedding

The couple in orange traditional print attire smiling at each other in front of dark green leaves

The programme

  1. Arrival of the bride

  2. Exchange of gifts

  3. Lunch

  4. End of programme

What to wear

Dressed for the occasion

Two very different days, two very different wardrobes. Here's a little guidance for each.

The couple in formal wear on a lawn below a waterfall, she in a floor-length champagne gown, he in a dark suit with a gold tie

White Wedding, 5 December

Formal black tie

Formal evening wear.

Note: Black tie doesn't mean all black.

Please do

Women
  • Floor-length gown
  • Elegant midi dress
Men
  • Dark suit
  • White shirt
  • Tie

Please avoid

  • Jeans
  • Casual wear
  • Day dresses

The white wedding day’s details

The couple in traditional attire: she in an orange print dress and headwrap, he in a white shirt with orange print trim

Traditional Wedding, 6 December

Traditional attire

Come dressed in traditional attire. Wear your heritage proudly, in any print or style you love.

Please do

  • Traditional attire from your own heritage
  • Any print, colour or style you love

The traditional day’s details

Travel & stay

Where to stay

A few places near each celebration. Please book directly with them; rates are a guide only and will vary for the wedding weekend.

For the White Wedding, Saturday 5 December

The couple smiling side by side in formal wear, a waterfall behind them

For the Traditional Wedding, Sunday 6 December

The couple in orange traditional print attire smiling at each other in front of dark green leaves

Gifts

With gratitude

Your presence is truly the greatest gift.

Gift vouchers

We would be grateful for gift vouchers from any of these stores, to help us furnish our home and start this next chapter together.

  • Volpes
  • @Home
  • Continental
  • Woolworths
  • Mr Price Home
  • Loads of Living
  • Takealot
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Let us know which celebrations you'll be at. One reply per guest: once yours is in, you can reply for others too.

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So we can reach you with any updates about the day. We'll never share it.

The celebrations

White Wedding

09:00 – 19:00Home of Archery Johannesburg South

Traditional Wedding

10:30 – 17:005 Matruh Street

The finer details

Dietary requirements

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And finally

Optional

Plans change? You can update your reply until 25 November 2026.

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Before you arrive

Good to know

A few things worth knowing before the weekend. Zodwa and Katleho are happy to help with anything else.

  1. BOB: bring your own bottle

    Both celebrations are BOB. No alcohol will be served or sold at either venue, so please bring along whatever you'd like to drink.

  2. What ‘black tie’ means

    Black tie, the dress code for the white wedding, is formal evening wear. It describes how formal the occasion is, not the colour of your outfit, so colour is welcome.

  3. RSVP for both days

    The white wedding and the traditional wedding are separate celebrations, so please reply for each of them in the RSVP form by 25 November 2026.

Still wondering about something?Ask us directly